Aww Nikki,

It's a shock isn't it? I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I was also given the choice to m/c naturally or to have D&C. My decision was to have the D&C because my pgs (all three of them) were showing no sign of ending quickly on their own (1 was 12wks, 8wks and 10.5wks respectively) and the babies had died at least 3 weeks previous in all cases. For me, being able to end the situation to be able to prepare to TTC again ASAP was really important.

But I can also understand that some ladies like to feel more in control of the situation and let nature take its course. Ultimately, you have to do what you have to do.

We are all here for you...and know what you are going through

Hayseed