I haven't been online for a while and have only just seen your reply csab. Thank you so much for telling me your story and for the info on tests for recurrent miscarriage.Your story too is a very sad one and I'm so happy that you now have your beautiful girls. To lose twins is a very hard road.

I think I need to give myself some time to get over this whole experience, just when I think I'm going ok something will set me off and I'll start crying, usually in a shopping centre or work or somewhere really public and embarrassing. I'd love to try just once more but I'm so scared that it will all happen again.

I'm just waiting now for my cycle to sort itself out after the D&C and I will get myself tested. Hopefully a reason for the losses will be identified and I can do something about it.
When you think what an amazing and intricate process pregnancy is, every child born is such a miracle.