i think you put it beautifull without even realising, and SB also put it in to words beautifull too! i think it will be a hard thing for some to get their heads arounda nd maybe some people wont know if they should be congratualtion you on you pregnancy or being sorry for your loss. I think when you tell people you almost have to tell them that its ok to be happy but you want people to acknowledge your little firefly. just sending some more hugs to you. xxx