Well funny reply i guess but the straight answer is no. I cant understand what you are talking about at all. I found out through testing what sex my MC was, but i didnt have testing wuth the ectopic. I NEVER have a feeling as to what i am having or what anyone else is having so i guess its natural that i dont know when i lose one. I wish i did know with the ectopic, somehow it helps with the MC. But i just cant seem to decide myself.

To answer your question, no i dont think any of you are funny about 'knowing' this stuff. I think its important and something to cherish. Maybe my angel babies are just waiting for the right time to come and tell their mumma that its all all right.

Janelle, dont feel bad about not thinking of shelby as much. Its natural and what she would want! Enjoy TTC!