My God DEB! What a rough trot you are having Sweetheart! Both your Bubba's will be up there taking care of one another.
I do have a close girlfriend, Kylie, who has been through the same hell as you. She had two healthy Bubba's...one in 97 then another in 00. Then in 02 she had lost one Bubba in May and another in September, both losses were dated at exactly 12wks 6days... Since then she has had a healthy boy in 03 and last year she had a healthy Bubba girl!
In Kylie's case they found no reason for the losses. She was in her late 20's and healthy, happy, with no previous miscarriages or problems in pregnancy.
I know alot of ladies who have had healthy Bubba's after a loss (I hope to be one of them) But I thought of Kylie as soon as I read your story and thought you might like to know that there is no such word as hopeless in this Baby making saga we all go through. Just keep you chin up Honey, and I'll meet you in the Pregnancy Belly Buddies soon!