Deb, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I have recently suffered my second M/C also and am still left reeling from it. I too have no answers for the reasons for either loss and it is extremely frustrating. You are blessed to have your little ones at home to take your mind off things sometimes though, I don't have any children as yet and trying to have one consumes me, so unfortunatley, I can't help with the baby after miscarrisge, but i can sympathise with the emotions and feelings you are having. You will need time to yourself to cry kick and scream and also time with your partner to talk it through. It is hard and a horrible thing to go through once let alone more than that. Take care.