Miscarriage after Heartbeat

[Jaycee]

Hi Amy
Welcome to bb, I only wish it was under happier circumstances.
I don't have any great advice I'm sorry, hopefully someone will pop in who's a little better educated, I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss.
Take care

[Amy88]

Thanks for that, I'm just feeling soo confused, angry and very much empty and have no idea why at 8 weeks my baby had a very strong heartbeat and then at 10 weeks to loose it, it just doesn't seem fair to me. I think what has been helping a little is the fact that I have women who has been through it and they know exactly what I'm feeling and going through, I'm just hoping that when my time comes again that I won't have to go through this again. With my other 2 girls I had no problems at all and never once did it ever cross my mind that I would ever loose them but now it has happen I'm afraid that my next attempt I'm going to be standing on eggs shells for 9 mths until I have a healthy baby in my hands.

[Lulu]

It isn't fair and it's an awful shock

I think I did walk on eggshells for 9 months with my next one - but I got her in my arms and now she is 4.

xoxoxo

[Amy88]

Thanks Lulu,
I think with my next 1 my doctors and midwifes are going to get sick of me but I can't not try again on the slight case I will loose it again I've just gotta trust that this one will go fine and at the end I will have a beautiful baby in my hands... I'm planning on trying again in a couple of months so fingers cross nothing goes wrong.

[kimmi]

I"m so sorry for your loss. I myself have never even been pregnant, so I can't fathom your loss

Hugs***

[Amy88]

Thanks Kimmi
It's hard when u do loose a baby but I do have to think myself lucky that I do have 2 beautiful girls and I'm still young enough to try again which I plan to do in a couple of months, so fingers cross I carry this 1 to term and get a beautiful baby in my arms at the end.

[kimmi]

That's a really awesome attitude Amy! I'm so glad you have what it takes to focus forward You will get what you want in life, I know it

[TeniBear]

Amy... It's tough losing a pregnancy at any stage, especially after hearing that wonderful whooshing heartbeat. Hope you get what you're after - when you're ready to start again, we've got TTC after loss threads you can join