awww so very very sorry for your loss. With one of my early pregnancies (before Arden) there was a heartbeat at 7 weeks, 9 weeks than lost at 11 weeks. That was a huge shock as I was so confident than it was going to work out but than the dreaded words came that really rip you apart 'failed pregancy' and/or 'missed abortion'

You've done nothing wrong, no matter how they term it or when it happens, a miscarriage is a painful experience. *hugs*

Look after yourself and when your ready I wish you a successful pregancy next time round.