Oh Ladybirdflies As hard as it is, at least you KNOW now. Doesn't make it any better though, I know

OP - Professor and I can't decide on that either, so we've just basically ignored it and aren't using protection. If it happens it happens. Do you think that could be an option for you?

AFM - I've had a couple of family members (sister and pregnant cousin) ripping in to me over the past week, to the point where I've blocked them both on FB. I don't need their crap at the moment. The pregnant one is angry at me because I'm not jumping for joy about her latest pregnancy and my sister is sticking with her. They both say 'crap happen, get over it and stop being a drama queen'. Nice.