Oh no no no no - Kerry I am so sorry - I know exactly what you have been through and it is just raw grief - i had experienced much the same with my 1st m/c - i too could not believe the physical pain at 11wks but it was not nice - the emotional pain is something i wish i could take away for you - i am feeling it with you all over again - honey all i can say is I am so so sorry and i wish i could fix it for you : hugs:
Thanks for all your kind words and messages of support, encouragement and love. I've been reading everything and trying to find that inner strength, Lisa, that I'll need to pick up the pieces of the shattered dream. One of the hardest parts this week has been that DP has not been able to be with me but we have talked and talked and talked. We will try again if that's possible and I've made an appointment for the end of the month with the ob/gyn whose care I would have been under for this pregnancy if it had been successful. What are some of the questions I should ask? What tests could I ask to have done? I've started taking Zoloft with the view that I think I need some extra help this time to get past the feeling that I've just lost my last chance at having a baby. A special thanks again to my friend Sarah (Celsie) who'd hoped like I did that this was the one for me and has shared my distress throughout this week. Love you, Sarah!
And much love to you all.
Kerry - I did post to you in another thread. I have been thinking about you for days now and I am praying that you are ok. What you have been through is so cruel and it must be hard without your DP around. Just know that there is heaps of us BB ladies sending your hugs from afar.
I recently had tests done to see what's going on with my body and they did a bloodtest (they took alot of blood) and an ultrasound. Our doc said these were the normal initial tests they usually do. I think the bloodtest was really good as they tested for alot of things. Fortunately everthing came back clear for me except I have Ceoliac Disease (I was diagnosed at 2 years old) and there was still gluten in my body which could of been the cause of my miscarriages. So we are glad we did the tests just to be sure of everything.
Hi Kerry
I am new to BB and arrived here after going through a mc.
take your time to grieve the loss.
I feel for you so much and sending you lots of hugs.
Take care
Mrs G
Oh Kerry,
I am so so sorry. As you know I have also had two missed m/c's and had to have d&c's both times. I really felt differently too after the second one because it no longer seemed like it was "just one of those things" anymore. I had all the same fears, that it meant we may never have children or not naturally at least and I certainly never dreamed I'd be where I am now! Please don't give up hope. Have all the tests they will let you have because even if they show nothing (as mine did) at least you can feel like you are being pro-active.
I wish there was someting I could say to take the emptiness away for you-- I will be thinking of you.
Hopexo
Kerry, I too have been thinking about you lots, wondering how your doing each day. What a hard, hard time but you will get past these & realise your dream one day soon. Take care sweety.
I also miscarried and had a d&c 9 days ago..so truly know how you are feeling.
It's heartbreaking and so sad.
I am so so sorry for your loss.
They say time helps...I say march on time..
Thinking of you.
Thanks Willow, Mummyto1 and Lulu. Lulu, I'm so very sorry for your recent loss, too. for all of us who share such sadness.
It seems to be getting harder and harder to breathe, my heart feels so heavy tonight. No, DP is not with me. He'd hoped to get here Thursday night but the plan went awry. Maybe next week. Maybe. Tomorrow I must pull myself together so that I'll be ready to go back to work on Monday. Dust off that mantra: Everything will be fine. And find something positive to focus on in the coming weeks.
Bucket loads of babydust for all of you and may your journeys end with healthy happy bubs to love and love and love some more.
Kerry im so so so so sorry for your loss i havnt been around much and only just found it...... HUGE HUGS!!!! Im thinking of you and DP and i wish you well with the FS...
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for all of us who share such sadness.
Tomorrow I must pull myself together so that I'll be ready to go back to work on Monday. Dust off that mantra: Everything will be fine. And find something positive to focus on in the coming weeks.
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