Thanks everyone for your kind words.

I think I will opt just straight for d&c when i see my doctor this afternoon.
I also have a 3 going on 30 yr old and think it would just be easier all around, also I don't fancy keeping something dead inside me for any longer than necessary, wording may be a bit harsh but I think you will get my meaning.

Thanks again
Laura
Hi Laura,
I am in my 5th day after a curette and although I passed most of it naturally I'm so glad I got it over with physically, emotionally its hard and I'm still finding it tough to let go.. Be strong and believe in yourself.. As so many here have gone through this it's great to have them and to know we will feel better even if we never forget the little angel