Is a natural miscarriage more painful than labour?

**Pretty Butterfly** · August 8th, 2010, 12:07 PM

I am now having what I guess is like a normal period... so i guess this is the start...

Is this likely to just continue without anything happeneing??

I still have no cramping, just the dull ache.... I just wish it would "happen" or not happen, this in between is just horrible....

**Kazmar** · August 8th, 2010, 12:09 PM

I keep thinking of you

Just dont know what to say, all I can do is offer cyber hugs

Dont know why the universe has put you through this, again.

amazing mummy

**Inanna** · August 8th, 2010, 12:13 PM

The bleeding is always more with such a late loss - especially as your baby flew away some weeks ago. You will labour. The pain will get more intense.

**Jahzara** · August 8th, 2010, 12:16 PM

and

Thinking of you !

Lots of love
xoxo

**LaDolceVita** · August 8th, 2010, 12:46 PM

No words could ever express just how sorry I am that you are going through this. Huge Hugs xx

My experience: My first missed m/c was more painful than my full term birth. My second m/c was not as painful, was just like a very painful period - I had endometriosis so they were very painful anyway! I did require pain relief for the first and was in hospital a few times over the course of waiting for it to pass naturally - 5 weeks it took

It hindsight I do wish I had've had the D&C.

Thinking of you and wishing you all the best, I wish none of us ever had to go through this. xx

**ferrals5** · August 8th, 2010, 03:08 PM

I have had 3 full term births and my last son was 1 hour and 20 minutes from start to finish with and i no drugs with any of them other than gas when i was induced at 19 weeks 5 days with my daughter it started out similar then it was agony i was on morphine and it took 9 hours for me to dilate as the little head is not big enough to help the cervix open once she was ready to be born the contractions stopped and the birth itself was easy and quick.
My thoughts are with you during this time and i am so sorry for your loss.

**Pretty Butterfly** · August 8th, 2010, 05:47 PM

Everything is still the same, nothing more seems to be happening....

**~Kaz~** · August 8th, 2010, 06:41 PM

Oh hun

my heart is breaking for you.

**mako** · August 8th, 2010, 09:13 PM

Sending you more

Jodi. This universe is so so cruel at times. You are in my thoughts constantly

**~Serenity~** · August 8th, 2010, 09:23 PM

Just wanted to send lots of hugs and love your way

**beckoes** · August 8th, 2010, 09:33 PM

just sending you love and hugs and joining with everyone else to hold your hand through this!!!!! xxx

**Liz** · August 8th, 2010, 09:41 PM

I only just saw this (and went in search of other threads) I'm so so sorry to hear this

I hope it goes smoothly for you. *big hugs*

**miss.cinders** · August 8th, 2010, 09:43 PM

Lots of strength, courage & hugs OP

***Ash*** · August 8th, 2010, 09:52 PM

I have been thinkng about you today. I am so sad that you have to go through this and that your precious butterfly couldn't stay with you. I am another one who is holding your hand.