oh girlfriend ... please let me know if there's anything I can do, or if you want to catch up for breakfast or lunch or coffee after work one day ...

or to take the kidlets to the park - I can send DH to chase after them for an hour or so, and get them severely worn out, and we can have a natter, or a cry, or a vent, or whatever you need.

you have been there when I've just needed someone to be there, and I would love to be there for you, if it would be of any assistance.

I hope your DH is home, and that he's bundled you into bed and is giving you some seriously comforting snuggles, and just holding you or crying with you or praying with you - because we can't always hold ourselves together alone ... and it's ok to fall apart, and have someone take care of us every now and then.

We're praying for you, and thinking of you, and loving you so much.

You aren't alone.

And while none of us can know exactly what you're going through, so many of us can certainly relate to that emptiness, that helplessness, that isolation, those questions, and those bleak tearfilled 2am heartaches...

You're not alone.

Just let me know if there's anything I can do to help.

sending you so much love xoxoxo