I'd been spotting for close to a week... I'd had hcg levels checked and ultrasounds done.
When I did finally miscarry, I knew it was going to happen about 40 minutes before it did. It happened just as we arrived back home. I managed to make it in the door and got to the toilet.
The pain wasn't huge... TBH I was expecting more. There was copious amounts of blood and clots. I remember passing the sac and what I assume was the beginning of the placenta. I continued to pass clots ranging in size from 5c piece size to 2x 50c piece sized for 3 days... after that the clotting stopped and the bleeding turned into light spotting and eventually stopped. The whole process took less than a week.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family and my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
I don't know if my story is of any help to you, but when I lost my little boy, my placenta didn't come away like it should have, so I had to have it removed in surgery. I had very heavy bleeding a week later with huge blood clots coming away. I was actually in a fabric shop looking for a nice blue sparkly fabric to put around Joshua's 'plactic' container ( I will be burrying his ashes on his due date in Feb )and then all of a sudden I felt like something was coming down and I had to run to the nearest shop with a toilet and then I almost passed out from the blood loss and massive clots. I was very scared to move anywhere for a few days afterwards, in case it happened again, so I didn't venture out again until the bleeding stopped completely. I was really freaked out as I've never experienced such heavy bleeing and clotting ever. After this incident in the shop, I bled for another week ( not very heavy ) and then within 4 weeks in total after I had Joshua, the bleeding stopped.
My 1st was spotting to start, then cramping, and then bleeding lightly for a few hours, bad cramping and then after about 12 hours passed some big clots, and continued bleeding like a period for 4 - 5 days.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this hun.
My 1st m/c was at 9 weeks and I was later told it was prob a blighted ovum.
I had bleeding like a period then more cramping then I remember sitting on the loo and the sac coming out and I held it and sobbed my heart out cause I realised that it really was all over. I had the next day off work and went back on the following Monday i think.
I continued to bleed for a couple of days then stopped and had a normal AF the next month.
I'm sorry for your loss. My losses were all around the 5/6 week mark.
#1 was a week or two (over ten years ago so I've forgotten) of constant brown sludge. No pain.
#2 was a few days of light occasional spotting followed by 3 days of light bleeding (less than a normal period). Some small clots. I got dehydrated & had to be on a drip for a little while. No pain.
#3 was pretty much the same as #2 but no dehydration & had a little bit of back pain.
Dusty, I have nothing to share, but I did want to pop in and say how very, very sorry I am for your loss. When I saw the title of this thread my heart broke for you. I am just so sorry.
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