With my m/c i like some of you had the cramping and all (i would now say it was worse than both of my labours I have had) and I spent literally hours just sitting on the toilet with DP rubbing my back and with each 'contraction' i would have more clots and stuff come out. I was actually booked to have my D&C the morning after all this bleeding as the m/c had been picked up that day. I thought that I may have been able to not have the D&C but when i had the u/s just before the proceedure they told me that most of it was still in there still!