Annie i am so sorry for your loss. I'm sorry i can't answer your questions either.
But maybe some of these people can help;

SANDS- stillbirth and neonatal death Support, Boxhill, Vic, 98990218

Bonnie Babes-9803 1800- Bonnie Babes Foundation > Home


They are both 24hr phone lines for support for peope who have suffered a loss. I hope you get some answers.