Annie,
I am so pleased you have your babies together, it was something that I will always regret not doing.
Having the time to think what you want to do is very important, It is a traumatic time and unfortunatley no one mentioned anything to me except a lovely midwife who told me that they had to put my girl in a solution for the pathologist so "Do you want to see her?" As though I was making her day even harder by having a stillborn.
Something we thought was a blessing having our obst back date by a few days threw Charlotte back to 19 weeks actually turned into a nightmare of not acknowledging her exisitence for me.
May your babies be living in eternal happiness.
Bec