SIL had a miscarriage...

[BrightSparkles]

I'm not even sure if this is the right place to post this so please move it if it needs to be.

**PLEASE don't be offended by anything I say in this post, this is my feeling on this particular situation and isn't the same for everyones situation**
I was talking with my brother last night who told me that his fiance had a miscarriage the night before.
Now, please don't get me wrong, I understand how horrible this experience is (from experience) but in thier situation I can't help but feel that it happened for a reason.

I understand they are upset and hurting and will and continue to show them the support and understanding they need to get through this but I can't help feeling this way. Yes - this is not all about me, it's about them I know.
I'm just finding it difficult to be supportive when I feel it was for the best.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can support them better, even though I feel this way about it??