thread: SIL had a miscarriage...

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    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
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    I think the best way to support them is to let go of your judgements of them...
    This is all your opinion - & that is subjective. I know when we have an opinion it seems right and just - but sometimes it helps to loosen that a little bit. They have their lives to live & they are doing that. Part of their life story is that they were having a baby & that baby died. That is a tragedy weather they are 30 with double income or just younguns with 1.

    So, take out all the paraphenalia around this & that will allow you to see it for what it is. A mother and a father losing their child.

    They need what anyone does when that happens. Compassion, time, food, flowers & loving arms.
    Last edited by Inanna; January 11th, 2010 at 01:29 PM.