Oh Freya I was wondering after you. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I know no words can make it all better for you. I just hope you take the time you need to recover from this, go gentle on yourself and your family, it is such a tough time for all of you at the moment. I wish there was someway that I could take your pain away, even for just a short while, to allow you some time to rest.
Well atleast some healing can begin as of wednesday morning. Cant say Im looking forward to a d&c but atleast the pregnancy symptoms will disappear and I can move forward.
Thankyou for all your lovely replies; its comforting to know someone other than me cares even just a little bit. And a huge extra special smooshy thankyou to Michelle, youve gone above and beyond what a good friend does for me yet again. I dont know how I will ever repay you
No one deserves to experience a miscarriage. The least I can do is make the horrible experience slightly more straightforward in the practical sense. And the EPAS girls will look after you for me because I can't be there in person
[QUOTE=Inanna;2500942]I'm so sorry Anna - big cuddles gorgeous heart. This really is so hard & you have been through so much. I hope the next few days can go as easily as possible for you as you say goodbye.
As for trying again - well my love some people (like me) believe that every Soul has a journey a purpose for all those it touches. Your little Soul's touched many of us & just maybe part of his or her's role was to help you decide definitevely and consciously if another Earth child is the best for you & yours. [QUOTE]
I'm also so sorry Anna
My recent lost little soul allowed me peace in the TTC decision. In my case it's closed the case for me. I tend to agree with Inanna, out of this heartbreaking loss will come a decision.
Be kind to yourself hun.....
xxx
Last edited by *becstar*; October 13th, 2010 at 09:00 PM.
This is exactly how i felt about the ectopic. Not me again....
DH had said while we were trying to decide about if we wanted one more... "i just feel like we are tempting fate - we have three beautiful kids, what if we are pushing our luck??"
Oh did that comment haunt me...
Oh there is nothing right or wrong to do or say, i dont even know how to comfort you. I am so sorry that you are facing another loss and have the three little ones to be strong for.
You know i still havent cried for that beautiful baby i lost. I just cant bring myself. I think if i start i wont stop.
Lucy in the sky with diamonds.
Oh Freya
I was wondering after you. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I know no words can make it all better for you. I just hope you take the time you need to recover from this, go gentle on yourself and your family, it is such a tough time for all of you at the moment. I wish there was someway that I could take your pain away, even for just a short while, to allow you some time to rest.
I had hoped so much that this would work out very differently.
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