thread: So lost.............

  1. #19
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    I'm so sorry

  2. #20

    May 2008
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    Big hugs. So sorry for your loss.

  3. #21
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    Nov 2008
    in the ning nang nong
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    I feel terrible for you, for your pain and loss. I cannot imagine what you;re feeling

    Please don't punish yourself for things said and not meant. I won't try to downplay the anguish you must be feeling, but pleased let me encourage you to know that you know baby would have been loved and protected and blessed, if they had been able to stay with you.

    I you have the time and space you and your family now need, to grieve.

    xoxo
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  4. #22
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    Anna I am also very very sorry you are going through this. Like I said in my text "the universe is a very very cruel place at times" So by no means did anything you or your DH said in the heat of the moment cause this to happen
    As for TTC again only you and DH can decide on that and be at peace with that decision. Please be gentle on yourself and DH as you travel through this difficult and sad time. I wish I could make things very different for you and take your pain away
    Please call me anytime day or night if you want someone to talk too or cry with or whatever you need at the time

  5. #23
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    I'm so sorry. Hugs x

  6. #24
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    Thinking of you xxx

  7. #25
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    Sorry for your loss freya....big hugs

  8. #26
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    Mar 2007
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    I'm really so very sorry to read this Anna. Take care xx

  9. #27
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    I'm sorry for your loss and hope you find your answers within soon.

  10. #28
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    I'm so very sorry

  11. #29
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    To my beautiful Anna, my heart breaks for you right now, I wish I could wrap you up in my arms and just give you a hug.

    There is nothing you did wrong to make this happen, no bad thought, the universe can be a cow sometimes, but she has a plan, right now I have no idea what that plan is because you don't deserve this.

    Thinking of you sweetheart, sending you love and strength.
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  12. #30
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    gentle

  13. #31

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    Oh honey I'm so sorry

  14. #32
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    so sorry to hear this Anna

  15. #33
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your angel. Thinking of you.

  16. #34
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    I am so sorry hun
    Huge hugs

  17. #35
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    Jul 2010
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    So sorry for the loss of your little one. *hugs*

  18. #36
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    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
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    Big gentle hugs sweets... xoxoxo

    I ws exactly where you are, in January babe, after losing Seven....

    And then Isaiah too.... But looking back, I dont regret my little Isaiah at all, I cherish his memory, I love remembering his beautiful homebirth, holding him, touching him all over.. nothing can take those precious hours away from us.... I look in his memeory box all the time, with many many tears, and many smiles for my boy.....

    We do know deep down its not our fault, but guilt comes way to easily to us mummies sweets.. xoxoxo

    If you do decide to try again, you will have all your BB here to help, support and love you through it, just as I have discovered....

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