Struggling after m/c

[diannescruffy]

So very sorry for your loss hun, sending you love and strength and a big warm embrace .

Regards,
Dianne

[Mrs O'M]

My heart goes out to you during this time. Surround yourself with people who love you and understand whats going on.

Big hugs to you and your family and all the best for your little mans party

[OceanPrincess]

Oh B, my heart just broke for you reading that. Tegam got it I think - it is an earth-shattering thing, so it is ok to be not ok.

I know what you mean about the little bumps. I'm exactly the same - still. Good friend of mine is the same gestation that I would have been... And every time I see her, my heart aches. Every single time. I can only imagine that it will continue, for some time... But I hope it will get easier. I hope.

I'll keep you in my prayers, dear B.

[forshelby]

Oh, Miss B. I wish I was lucky enough not to understand what you're going through, but man- do I. It's ok to feel ripped off and flat out devastated. I too wish I wasn't back in here. It sucks. My recent chem was such a shock, and over so quickly that I have found myself questioning that it really happened. Stupidly, I still have the positive test to prove it. I don't want to throw it away. I should be almost 9 weeks. "Should." There you go. I have a bad case of 'the shoulds' right now. It doesn't help that a close friend is pg, at the same gestation I was supposed to be. Every milestone is a reminder, but at the same time I don't want to miss out on her journey either.

IT SUCKS! My only advice is to allow yourself to feel whatever you want, and don't push yourself to 'return to normal' before it's time. I wish I could take my own advice, but alas....... DP doesn't share the same sadness I do. Again. He never grieves or understands or even cares about our losses. I would've hoped he would at least care that I am hurting, but I can't even tell him. I don't want to share that part of me with him again for him to shoot me down and tell me our baby was 'nothing'. Well, it sure didn't feel like nothing when I held it in my hand and said goodbye, while blood and tears and despair all mix together.

Sorry, what a massive downer that was.

I guess that's my way of saying I'm right here beside you, feeling ripped off and not knowing where to turn. I'm so so sorry for your loss.

[sloane]

thinking of you

[Footsteps]

Massive and love huni. xxxxxxxxx

[Janie71]

Big hugs Miss B - you are such a great support to everyone else - hope that we can all help you out now with a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen.

Janie xxx

[ladybirdflies]

I am sorry to read this MissB, it is not an easy path at all. It's more difficult when the world continues to move at such a fast pace and you are not able to be still and be with what is being asked of you. May you feel supported as you walk this journey xx

[Diamond Girl]

- Im so sorry you are struggling. I wish I could take your pain away, but I cant, all I can do is say that I understand, fully, and that I am here to support you whenever you need.

[BlackRose]

I am so sorry

[Miss.B]

Thanks ladies, it's sad to know others have been through this too. I wish no one had to endure it Thank you for your beautiful hugs and messages xox

[forshelby]

Have another one.

I wish there was something I could do... but I know all too well there is nothing.

Happy birthday to Cameron for tomorrow, I hope immersing yourself in whatever celebration you have planned for him eases your pain if only for a little while.

[AndiE]

Hi hun, I've been thinking of you. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this - it's just not fair.
Wishing your little Cam a happy birthday tomorrow (as my Cam celebrates his) - he won't care about any party plans, he'll just be happy with his mummy's cuddles.
Take care, xx