Well done kirsty.. this is a huge step & an important step... as you said it is their problem if ppl have a problem with it... i am sure ppl will soon

When I ws in NICU with Alexa, a mum their had twins at 25 weeks & lost 1 after 9 days... she had his ashes in a box & carried him everywhere with her in a baby bag, with his teddy & picture... at first when I realised (she told me) I was honestly surprised & shocked, but it didnt take long for me to become comfortable with him being with us & even "looked after" him when his mum went into the unit to see his bother....

To some it may be wierd (it was to me at first), but I soon realised as will others, that it is a wonderful thing that this special little person is around in their own way & will never be forgotten!!!


Big hugs to you chicky....

mitch