Kirsty, i cant imaging losing 2 bubs like you have. I think if people are offended by your wishes then they arent worth haveing around. He is part of the family and if you wish to have him in the house as he should be then thats your decision not theirs.

I hope this never ever happens to you again and that one day you are blessed with a bub to hold and nurture for life. So sorry for your losses.:hugs: my heart truly goes out to you.