I am so sorry for your loss . I just wanted to say that I agree with mum2bee, that you should really talk about your DP's comment with him. Men really don't think before they speak sometimes and most of the time have no idea of the impact their words have on us. I always find talking things like this through with my DH much better as the air is cleared and I can move on without stewing on it and feeling more and more hurt that he hasn't acknowledged it.

Make sure you don't dwell on it until you speak to him and just concentrate on looking after yourself right now. I really hope things start looking up for you soon.