TaffyLou, I am so sorry about the loss of your little one. I agree, do tell DP how that remark made you feel. Are you seeing your GP or FS anyway to make sure of things? If DP by chance really did mean what he said (and I am almost certain that it was just thoughtless), then I would have a quick chat to the doctor about it, and ask him/her to talk to DP if necessary. Sometimes men find it very helpful to hear things from a third party, especially someone in authority.

I know that thoughtless remarks really hurt. Even if he didn't mean it, the hurt is still there. HUGS.