honey i think sometimes men just dont think about the impact their words can have. when we lost our angel baby on the drive home from hospital DH said oh well ***** happens. i went out of my brain at him. but he didnt mean it as it sounded. so sorry for your loss. are you still seeing dr to make sure?
I agree - i also think men try that hole 'be tough' stuff to not show how they are really hurting. I think the '**** happens' line is away for them to try and deal with it in themselves.

They just dont deal well with those sorts of emontions, and deal with it in a more harsher way then us females. Not sticking up for them, or saying that they are correct, but, they are just a different species.