AWWW I am sorry Taffylou... Sorry for the little one that you have lost and sorry your DP had some verbal diahorrea... I am sure he didn't mean it to sound so hard and cold - but you do need to talk to him about it when you can. Men have an issue with it being about them and their perceived masculinity ... He just blurted I would say.

Big big hugs to you my love as you heal