Oh Kazz matey. Swear words are coming out of my mouth right now. I am just so sorry. I was hoping that all you guys would be home and hosed and that somehow the rest of us were the unfortunate statistics. I totally 100% know how you feel. It really really sux. I have found this site to be so helpful though, as well as talking to people who have been through the same thing. Please let me know if you would like my details to contact me directly, if you want to chat.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Massive hugs