After my first MC the Dr told me to wait 2-3 cycles so my body could get back on track and to give myself some time to grieve the loss of my first little bean.
The Drs told me to do the same after my second MC (different Dr too BTW) but I just told DH that I was sick to death of following the advice from all these "professionals" who had never experienced a loss of any kind that are pregnancy related. By this stage we were also up to getting some testing done having also lost a baby in between MC.
We didn't wait one cycle and just went with the flow and are still carrying that pregnancy now.
I guess only YOU can be the judge of what is best for you, your DP and your body. If you truely feel fine to start TTC again and I mean really fine with the loss emotionally as well then just do what your heart tells you to.
FWIW - I questioned my Ob after our second MC (he rang me which was nice) I asked him about why they say 2-3 months and his reply was most women just want to put back what has been lost to them rather than taking time to go through the grieving process.
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