Why do people insist on saying this??

[forshelby]

I'm so sorry. You're right. There is no reason for your sons to be taken from you. When I hear of mc or any kind of babyloss my response is always the same. "I'm so sorry. Nature is cruel." It isn't much but I think it's kinder than empty pleasantries.

You are taking this baby home. I hope your baby can ease some of your pain and fill your heart and your life with joy, where there's only been sadness for so long.

[Jennifer13]

I think your babies lives were all for a reason, they were meant to share your journey. But i don't think there's any reason they left too soon. That just sucks. But their lives were full of meaning to those they've touched, especially their parents.

[Charlotte91]

BAL, I'm so sorry. People just don't know what to say.
DP and I watched your video of the boys and we both cried through it. They are beautiful angels and their spirit will live on forever.

To all you angel-mummies -- I'm so sorry. It's not fair what you went through. I haven't lost a child, but I was at my sister's 20 week ultrasound when we found out that Abigail was gone. I was heartbroken, I was at her appointments and was going to be there for the birth. I know how hard that was for me. I can't imagine what you went through.

Having a living child doesn't make up for an angel. My beautiful 10mo niece doesn't make up for my sisters firstborn.

I've been thinking of you alot lately, BAL. I just want to send you lots and lots of hugs.
xoxo

[Miss.B]

Blessed, when I lost Joshua, the only thing that got me through the pain of losing him was to believe and accept that it did happen for a reason, that's how I got my peace and closure. I think if I didn't believe this, I would have lost the plot. I believe that wherever he is, I will be there with him one day and that makes me happy. I don't believe he is gone forever. I guess people have their own beliefs, and it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't understand pain (especially pain of losing a child) it just means that that's what they belive and hope that it will too bring peace to the other person. I agree that it's better to say 'sorry about your loss' in case you are one of those people who don't believe that things happen for a reason.