I always say when I am worried about anything like this is " you dont see a 10 yrs old doing poo's in a nappy' or still waking in the night I do this just to remind myself that all kids do get it it might not be today but they will get it. I find that it makes me not worrie so much.. my DD wouldn't train in knickers so I just took them off she ended up getting so emrassed (sp?) about doing her poo's on the floor that she ended up getting the idea of going to the toilet..