Hi rayray... my son went through the same thing...it took him almost 2-3 months of just "investigating" in the loo (flushing, playing with paper, lifting the lid etc) it drove me insane but he hated the potty.... Although not the nicest thing i found when ever we wanted to go we would take DS with us and tell him what we were doing... "mummy has to wee etc" DP found it hard as DS would try and touch or stare at his bit while going but he soon caught on that thats where you do it... wee's were no probllem and has been using the loo for 8 months now but has only just in the last week started doing #2's on there... He would hide and do it in his undies or do it in his nappy (night one before i had a chance to put him in undies)

I've been told by many parents that boys are the hardest to train and it has taken a long time but were finally on the right track... My DS hated the pull-ups as he thought it was still nappies....

Perseverance is the key but i would say... Once he wants to start dont go back... I did in the begining and it makes it worse and takes longer... Just stick to it and be patient it will happen just takes alot of time (and dirty undies)


Good luck