I wasn't so sure about just biting the bullet, but thought i would give it a go. Started with a short trip in the car to visit ZF, (dd has used potty there before and i knew ZF would be ok if there was an accident), and success! DD wee-ed at ZFs place and was dry in the car. Went to fire station, and same thing so I was starting to feel more confident. Went to another mate s place that involves an hour drive, still dry and wees in their toilet. So, DD is pretty much in nickers all day, and just a nappy at night. She has had couple of accidental wees, but tells me or will go to toilet and change straight away. She is also more receptive when i tell her we are going for a big drive and so she might want to try to do wees before we go. She has to watch herself and makes the funniest faces "I did it!" she yells. We had one time in the back yard when i had to say "do you want to go wees on the grass?" cos i knew she wasn't going to make it back to the house, but her nickers stayed dry.

i am going to make some sort of mat for her car seat just in case, but she is doing really well.