Hey Simone!
CONGRATULATIONS on the birth of your little girl.
Ivy and Noah were born 10 weeks early too. They were tiny to start but at six months have caught up really well.
It's easy to blame yourself for what happened but I believe in the same thing that Elly does, all things happen for a reason.
Developmentally, Ivy and Noah are progressing to their 'adjusted' age of 4 months. You will get used to all the jargon and you will get used to different expectations for your little one.
When you feel up to it, you should come and chat with all the other premmie mums.
It's a great place to learn and console and be consoled! Also a great place to celebrate the little things, that in a premmie world are really BIG achievements!

See you there