I can relate to the feelings of guilt. For weeks, I just wanted the baby 'out' of me, and I was so depressed. Then, when she was delivered, I felt so guilty because I felt as if if I could have carried her for longer, she would be better off. I had awful PND at the time too, which didn't help - but I can see now that the whole situation was just one of those things.
Sorry for waffling, im really tired today!
Good luck with everything, see you in the premmie mum's thread.
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