That's a really interesting question Berry. I also talk about how I want to go full term this time, which is only natural!!! My DD is to young though to undertand what I am saying...although maybe I am wrong, she will be two in Aug.
To me, DD's early arrival has made her who she is, a strong, independant and fairly stubborn little girl who is also very intelligent and perceptive - which is probably why she overcame all the obstacles that she was presented with. I really hope that she grows up being proud of being prem - because I am so so proud of her, it still amazes me to think of how strong she had to be at only 3lb1oz, and how amazing she is because of it.