i understand the feeling well. both my (full term+ ) boys went though SCN. and its never, ever easy.

sounds like they got the infection early though, if they're saying 5 days of Anti's. plus the CRP's dont sound too high eather, it may be due to the Jaundice as the liver (i think it is) cant handle all the extra red blood cells. is your DS a + or a - blood type? negatives tent to be more likely to end up with jaundice. if you need an ear to bash feel free to PM me