BlackRose, DD was in SCN from the time she was born until 2 days old... I only held her for about 20 seconds after she was born, and I didn't get to feed her until the following day. She was on IV nutrition so at least they didn't give her formula. She needed the bilibed at day 3. It's a difficult time and even harder dealing with family. Take care of yourself and hope your boy is home with you soon. xxx