wow - talk about responses LOL Thanks guys

I had used these opks (from lullaby!) around o time, i got a second line which was getting darker and darker, then at the 'party' weekend i forgot to test, and come tuesday when i tested again i got no 2nd line, and wed i got no 2nd line not even a faint one!

The 2nd line ive got now is not as dark as the control line but its visable at arms length etc......as you girls wrote, does this mean an instant no?
The reason i had posted this was because i havnt had a 2nd line on an opk unless it was around o time iykwim.

Bleeding??? OMG i cant remember now, if i count it from when i got brown cm its been a wk and a half, if i count it from red and brown 10days, if i count it the day af was a tad heaver (without clotting, she was only like that 1day and is back to being real real light!) 7days!
I hope that makes sense.

I am now just totally confused..........