Mako big big cuddles honey.... I can't say anything eloquent to describe how thoughtless & insensitive it is to treat you this way. We are here - we understand & more than that we want to support you, love you and be here for you through this time... And there will be good times again darling woman - just for now though it's sucky, it hurts like there are no words to describe... We are here.

Michelle: Bloody Norah if it doesn't rain it pours... I am sorry about your Dad - chain saws are merciless. I am glad you're on the job - I do get "the good patient" syndrome & I am glad you're there for him. Just make sure someones there for you honey. I hope your Dad copes well with Omars news & that you cope with his coping...

Janie - good luck with your Mum darling I hope she manages to keep it together so you are not unnecessarily stressed...
Sending everyone love & cuddles... xxx