Anyway, my point is, we need to be sensitive, in my opinion, especially at the current time when everything is so raw. When you loose your DH (just as when we lost our babes) you really don't want to hear people in your face about the thing you have just lost, it cuts so deep. Please no-one take this personally, I just needed to raise it. To be honest, I hated hearing my friends were going out with their DH's - to dinner, to a movie, family outings - it killed me every time, and none of us want Michelle feeling any worse than she already does
Lee - Thank you for posting about this. I suspect my post (which I have edited) may be why you mentioned it? I am not offended or taking it personally, just makes a lot of sense to me that you would say that after my comments is all. I just wasn't sure...in hindsight it came across as thoughtless so I have deleted it. The last thing on this earth I want to do is add to Michelle's pain.