Thanks for asking Christy
I was going to post in here after his football this morning because today he was really, really co-operative. Tessa the coach came up at the end of the class to say that he was listening much better but I could see that just by watching. He still refused to participate in the tails game - he sat on his at the nets so no-one could grab it lol.
I've been making a big effort to avoid situations that cause tantrums which has made life a little more peaceful.
The monkey harness has made life out and about simpler. Once it's on he knows he can't bolt and he's stopped trying.

I've decided to drop TT for a few weeks. I'm not offering him the loo before bath time or his undies. Imran loves jumping up on the loo before his bath so I'm hoping that when Yasin sees that Imran gets praised every night for using the loo he will want a bit of the action.