Huggs!

Do you have any support network you could call on to help? Parents? siblings? friends? If not maybe get in touch with a doc or community nurse or something and ask them about any support programs you could access in your area.

Having a newborn is stressful for anyone, particularly so if you have other things happening in your life, such as depression.

It is important (even if it sounds impossible) to try and get time out each day. For me that means 30mins in the bath, no kids, no distractions and a good book - but it can be whatever you want. Make sure your partner is getting at least this small amount of time out for himself too. If you can arrange it somehow (maybe when bubs is sleeping, or if you have someone to babysit and feel comfortable leaving them for a bit) try and spend some quality time with your partner - no baby talk, no money talk (you don't even have to talk at all if you cann't think of anything else to talk about) but just try and spend the time together.

Good luck.