I can sympathise.

Before having children DH and I decided 2 children was enough for us. DH was certain of it. In fact he said he would never agree to another and continued to say so after DS2 was born. He was happy and content with his 2 little boys.

I on the other hand was shocked to find that I wasnt feeling content with only 2. I kept thinking 'is that it, but Im only 27' how can I already be done? I have 5 siblings so to only have 2 kids seemed strange. I just didnt feel complete. I was very depressed at the thought of not having any more. Luckilly DH saw how it was affecting me and although I never forced it upon him, finally he agreed it wouldnt be so bad to have another. Funnily enough, he is actually looking forward to it now.

If it means that much to you, then talk to your DH about it. You could ask yourself if your want for another is greater than his want to be finished. Maybe if he had a chance to think about it he might not think it is so bad. Also, maybe if you really think about it you will discover you really are content with 2, because honestly sometimes the thought of 3 kids scares me.

The other thing I worry about is whether I will feel complete after having #3. I know for sure my mum wasnt, and for us there is no way we will be going for #4. I do worry about that. I worry about how I'll feel when Im done with having kids too. Its hard especially when you arent ready.

Good luck with it.