Kim, sorry you are having such a difficult time with Nate hun xx What is it with these terrible boys?

My first thought while I read your OP was food intolerances. Taking him to the Chiro or Osteo surely cant hurt either.

As for you and DH not being on the same page when it comes to parenting, I am in the same boat with DH too, sucks big time. We are atm trying to get DS to sleep in his own room but he is coming into our bed several times a night anyway, persistent little beggar! If it were just up to me I would have done the whole gentle/attatched parenting thing the whole way since birth, but its hard when you know your DH doesnt agree with it and is quite miserable sharing your bed with anyone but you. Its a bit like having 2 kids that each want you to themselves really?!!

I hope you are feeling a little less stressed about it all tonight xxxx