It's sad when they wean, my DD is heading down that road right now. When my DS weaned it was hard to see him just forget about it and not think about it again but that is kids and that is there beautiful resilence to life and it is joyous to witnese. He hasn't forgotten all the nourishment and special times you spent he just enjoys the other things you do together.

Relactating, is this something you really want to do? If you still have milk, is there any reason you can't BF some of the time, maybe just when you are bonding in the bath or something?