Like Manta I can relate... there was a time when my youngest and I (when he was 10 months old) were going through a rough patch and I was being pressured to wean (by a GP and my own mother) and I went through a similar grieving process. Now, he is 2.5yo and even though we kept BFing regularly until recently I still mourn the finality... because he IS my last child. Unlike your DS my son hasn't forgotten and he still latches on for a comfort suck (and falls to sleep 5 minutes later most of the time)... but if he kinda ignored my breasts in that bath scenario I too would be sad. STILL I do feel almost at peace with final weaning. I have semi-grieved for so long now that I think my brain is just over it... like it is all grieved out IYKWIM. So, in answer to your question... yes, i think you will move on... maybe like me you will get so involved in all their new stages and phases that the whole BFing issue will have no option than to fade further and further into the background... and you'll be ok with that.