i think this is really great!

Smug
1. i havent given into pressure to give DD2 formula yet
2.DD1 is using the toilet without being pressured
3. i dont yell at DD1 when she has an accident(like some ppl told me i should)
4.DD1 always has weetbix and museli for breakfast
5.DD1 doesnt know what softdrink is
6.dd1 would rather a banana over lollies-most days
7.DD1 has never had a screaming fit when i drop her off at day care
8.DD1 has impecable manners, something i'm very very proud of
9. it doesnt bother me that my girls might be 'behind' in their developments at points in their lives
10. DD1's transition into big sister went incredibly well

Crap
1. i sometimes use the telly as a babysitter
2. bribing to get DD1 to do something
3. yelling at DD1 purely because i cant be bothered with her
4. not giving DD1 enough of my time and playing with her as much as possible
5. DD1 knows exactly what mc d's and all other takeaways are
6. DD1 has been known to repeat dirty words
7. Putting a toy box into DD1's room so she could get up and play so we could get more of a sleep in
8. Readily palming DD1 off to the grandparents so we can have some peace and quiet, then feeling guilty and wanting her back.
9. Closing the door on DD1 when she's crying inconsolobly(sp?) in bed, instead of sitting with her and working out why she's crying