Thanks ladies. Ive made an appointment with the gp for wednesday.

day to day help = none. Dh leaves for work around 7am & gets home between 6.30 & 7pm. All of my family & friends work full time.

im connected with a mums group but its hard to go - im reliant on public transport & thats a nightmare with a baby who wont settle for me. That would also be the case if I joined an aba group - the closest one I would have to catch two buses to get there.